I am the driver. I am in control of how my life unfolds and how I navigate the bumps along the way. If you take my wheel, I might let you, for a while. But then I will gently take it back because I accept that, I, alone am responsible for where I am going.
I am a people watcher. I have excellent intuitive skills and in knowing what someone is about to do. When I am driving, I notice drivers around me, and I can tell when someone is about to change lanes beside me. I modify what I am going to do by reacting to what others around me are about to do. This is a lesson from driver training class, to always share the road because no two people can be in the same space at the same time. That is chaos.
I am a risks taker. I have been known to pick up hitchhikers. Once, while driving with a co-worker, I stopped to pick up a hitchhiker, but just as I watched him running towards my vehicle I had this feeling I should just drive away leaving him in my rear view mirror. But, I didn’t because it would be discourteous. Nothing happened. However, later we heard on the news that a mental patient had escaped from the institute near where we stopped. Lesson here is always trust your gut, even if you might hurt someone’s feelings or look bad.
I am a big picture kind of girl. Here again, lessons from my driver instructor, who emphasized in class to always see the "big picture". If there is an obstacle blocking your view, don’t just speed ahead, slow down and pull back until you see the big picture, what is ahead, beside, and behind you. When it is clear on all sides, make a decision, don’t hesitate, and just proceed forward.
I like to be prepared and ask questions. I like to think of all possibilities and things that can happen down the road. Much like having an emergency kit in my car with the usually stuff, candle, blanket, and chocolates. Although, the chocolates I have to keep replenishing for some reason. Be prepared by having the right tools at the ready. That said, it does not mean I am not occasionally spontaneous, sometimes, I like to just get in my car and drive just for the experience.
Timing is important. I detest being late and will continuously allow for possible interruptions. Most of the time I am early, which gives me time to pause and clear my head before proceeding. If there is a delay, as has happened recently due to someone I picked up who was not ready on time. I decided to accept it without anxiety, and allow that whenever we got there will be fine. In this instance, there was a horrible accident, and if I had my way, I would have been there right in the middle of that accident. If time is out of your control, it is best to just go with it.
I am flexible. But I admit, at times it takes more effort for me to change directions. It’s all about inertia, once I am moving down a path, it’s more difficult to halt and go in a different direction. However, when I trust my instincts, it is nothing for me to do a u-turn right then and there, usually with gusto. It is a rush to proceed into the unknown sometimes.
I am goal driven. This is the thing that most defines me. I have to know where I am going, what my goal is, and at the end of the day what waits for me. I need to be prepared. It’s like having a map, although, I don’t
read like maps because I get carsickness if I try reading them in a moving car. But, I do love the GPS in my car.
I love it, but don’t blindly trust it. I must know, for myself, where I am going generally before I get into the driver's seat, so when I am given
directions, I know them to be somewhat correct. I've heard too many stories of people ending up in the ditch because they followed their GPS instead of using their brain. Always question, am I on the right road.
Life to me is about knowing what I can control, accepting what I can't control, asking questions, and trusting my instincts. These understandings have guided me as I traveled. They are important because, as we know, life happens, whether it is according to our plan or not. Ultimately, it is how we react and adjust to the plan that makes the journey exciting. But most importantly, don't forget to have fun and pick up people along the way, with whom you can enjoy the scenery. Although, just not those on the road close to the mental institute. Just saying!